Career Confidence with Fexingo: Imposter Syndrome, Self-Promotion, and Owning Your Worth

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Career Confidence with Fexingo: Imposter Syndrome, Self-Promotion, and Owning Your Worth

Imposter syndrome and self-promotion often feel like opposite sides of a coin, but Lucas and Luna argue they are two sides of the same struggle: owning your worth. In this show, they move past platitudes to examine the specific mechanisms that cause capable professionals to underestimate their contributions—and the counterintuitive strategies that can shift that internal narrative. Drawing on research from organizational psychology, compensation data from sites like Levels.fyi and Glassdoor, and case studies from figures like Sheryl Sandberg and David Foster Wallace, each episode dissects a concrete scenario: asking for a raise when you're the youngest on the team, pitching yourself for a promotion without sounding arrogant, or navigating the psychological whiplash of rapid career acceleration. Lucas, with his journalist's eye for evidence, brings the stats; Luna, engaged and empathetic, tests them against real-world office dynamics. This is not a pep talk. It is a rigorous exploration of how high-achievers can recalibrate their internal benchmarks—and why the imposter feeling may never fully disappear, but can be managed into a driver rather than a drag. The listener who finishes an episode will have a specific framework, not a slogan. Can you separate your own evaluation of your work from the narrative your brain tells you?

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Episodes

146 episodes

How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hide Your Mistakes and How to Own Them

Aug 1, 2026 · 9:56
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Your Work

Jul 30, 2026 · 7:07
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Assume Your Work Is Obvious

Jul 30, 2026 · 5:07
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Negotiating and How to Start

Jul 29, 2026 · 7:14
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How to Stop Over-Justifying Your Decisions at Work

Jul 29, 2026 · 8:12
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How to Network Without Feeling Like a Fraud

Jul 28, 2026 · 6:46
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How to Stop Blaming Luck for Your Career Wins

Jul 28, 2026 · 5:24
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How Imposter Syndrome Stops You From Asking for a Promotion

Jul 28, 2026 · 8:11
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How Imposter Syndrome Stops You From Asking for Resources at Work

Jul 27, 2026 · 5:51
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How Imposter Syndrome Sabotages Self-Promotion

Jul 27, 2026 · 4:52
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How Imposter Syndrome Turns You Into a Perfectionist

Jul 26, 2026 · 4:37
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Why Imposter Syndrome Makes Feedback Hard to Accept

Jul 26, 2026 · 6:39
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How to Stop Over-Apologizing at Work

Jul 25, 2026 · 6:11
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Prepare for One-on-Ones

Jul 24, 2026 · 5:59
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Stay in a Bad Job

Jul 23, 2026 · 6:25
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Default to ‘Yes’ and How to Stop

Jul 23, 2026 · 6:25
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hoard Questions and How to Ask Better Ones

Jul 23, 2026 · 8:56
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Withhold Your Opinions and How to Stop

Jul 22, 2026 · 8:17
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Research Before Meetings and How to Stop

Jul 22, 2026 · 9:00
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Reject Help and How to Stop

Jul 21, 2026 · 6:53
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Ask Permission for Everything

Jul 21, 2026 · 7:29
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Downplay Your Wins and How to Stop

Jul 20, 2026 · 8:43
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Speak in Qualifiers and How to Stop

Jul 19, 2026 · 8:09
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How Imposter Syndrome Stops You From Delegating and How to Start

Jul 19, 2026 · 6:32
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Compare Yourself to Others and How to Stop

Jul 18, 2026 · 8:19
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Negotiating Salary

Jul 18, 2026 · 8:57
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Turn Down High-Visibility Projects

Jul 17, 2026 · 7:16
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Share Personal Details at Work

Jul 17, 2026 · 7:57
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Shrink Your Career Ambitions

Jul 16, 2026 · 7:41
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Overpromise Deadlines and How to Stop

Jul 16, 2026 · 7:37
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Your Decisions

Jul 15, 2026 · 10:59
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hoard Credit and How to Stop

Jul 15, 2026 · 9:06
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Volunteer for Mentorship Roles

Jul 14, 2026 · 7:35
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Apologize for Taking PTO

Jul 14, 2026 · 9:10
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Volunteer for After-Hours Work

Jul 13, 2026 · 7:11
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Overprepare for Casual Conversations

Jul 13, 2026 · 7:24
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Why Imposter Syndrome Makes You Volunteer for Unpaid Work and How to Stop

Jul 12, 2026 · 7:52
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Thank Colleagues and How to Stop

Jul 12, 2026 · 7:50
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Ask for Feedback and How to Stop

Jul 11, 2026 · 7:48
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Apologize for Speaking Up

Jul 11, 2026 · 8:50
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Refuse Compliments and How to Stop

Jul 10, 2026 · 7:46
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Asking for Help and How to Stop

Jul 10, 2026 · 7:37
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Volunteer for Scut Work and How to Stop

Jul 9, 2026 · 7:15
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Prepare for Presentations and How to Stop

Jul 9, 2026 · 10:56
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hoard Questions and How to Stop

Jul 8, 2026 · 9:25
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Compare Your Insides to Others Outsides

Jul 8, 2026 · 8:52
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Negotiating for Resources

Jul 8, 2026 · 9:40
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Accept Blame

Jul 7, 2026 · 9:25
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Overpersonalize Rejection and How to Stop

Jul 7, 2026 · 6:58
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Yourself and How to Stop

Jul 6, 2026 · 10:10
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Salary Negotiation

Jul 6, 2026 · 7:00
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Network and How to Stop

Jul 5, 2026 · 8:29
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Shrink Your Ambitions and How to Stop

Jul 5, 2026 · 7:23
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Downplay Your Wins and How to Stop

Jul 4, 2026 · 7:01
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Self-Sabotage with Perfectionism and How to Stop

Jul 4, 2026 · 9:10
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Research Before Decisions

Jul 3, 2026 · 8:55
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Rehearse Before Speaking and How to Stop

Jul 3, 2026 · 8:05
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Your Career Pivot and How to Stop

Jul 2, 2026 · 7:22
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Delegation

Jul 2, 2026 · 9:17
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hoard Credit and How to Stop

Jul 1, 2026 · 6:50
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Mute Your Voice in Meetings

Jul 1, 2026 · 6:04
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Prepare for Meetings

Jul 1, 2026 · 8:11
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Ask Permission and How to Stop

Jun 30, 2026 · 8:09
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Apologize for Your Time

Jun 30, 2026 · 8:40
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Deflect Compliments and How to Stop

Jun 29, 2026 · 7:32
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Mute Your Successes on LinkedIn

Jun 29, 2026 · 8:18
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Validate Your Decisions and How to Stop

Jun 28, 2026 · 5:49
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Skip Credit in Email Signatures

Jun 28, 2026 · 8:02
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Justify Decisions and How to Stop

Jun 27, 2026 · 8:35
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Say Yes to the Wrong Opportunities

Jun 27, 2026 · 5:40
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Use Filler Words and How to Stop

Jun 26, 2026 · 8:44
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Avoid Asking for Help and How to Stop

Jun 26, 2026 · 8:50
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Under-Negotiate and How to Stop

Jun 25, 2026 · 6:51
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Shrink Your Ambitions

Jun 25, 2026 · 7:35
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Downplay Your Own Credibility

Jun 24, 2026 · 7:28
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Diminish Your Role in Team Wins

Jun 24, 2026 · 9:50
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Your Work and How to Stop

Jun 23, 2026 · 6:35
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Reject Feedback and How to Stop

Jun 23, 2026 · 6:52
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Overlook Your Own Data

Jun 22, 2026 · 9:20
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Collect Credentials and How to Stop

Jun 22, 2026 · 6:35
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Hoard Credit and How to Stop

Jun 21, 2026 · 5:17
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Research Before Speaking Up

Jun 21, 2026 · 6:34
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Chase Credentials and How to Stop

Jun 20, 2026 · 6:51
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Volunteer for Unrewarded Work

Jun 20, 2026 · 9:00
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Apologize at Work

Jun 19, 2026 · 9:58
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Over-Explain Your Work and How to Stop

Jun 19, 2026 · 9:19
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Overprepare and Why It Backfires

Jun 18, 2026 · 8:46
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How to Stop Hiding Your Career Wins with a Simple Habit

Jun 18, 2026 · 11:19
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Compare Downward and Why It Backfires

Jun 17, 2026 · 6:12
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How to Stop Deflecting Praise and Start Absorbing It

Jun 17, 2026 · 5:32
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How Imposter Syndrome Makes You Rehearse Conversations and How to Stop

Jun 16, 2026 · 10:55
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How to Stop Imposter Syndrome from Making You Rehearse Conversations

Jun 16, 2026 · 11:04
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How to Stop Imposter Syndrome From Making You Deflect Compliments

Jun 15, 2026 · 8:01
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How to Stop Imposter Syndrome From Making You Replay Conversations

Jun 15, 2026 · 10:26
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How to Stop Imposter Syndrome From Making You Hoard Recognition

Jun 14, 2026 · 6:16
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How to Turn Career Setbacks Into Smart Professional Pivots

Jun 14, 2026 · 7:07
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How to Own Your Career Wins Without Feeling Like a Fraud

Jun 13, 2026 · 9:34
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How to Stop Hiding Your Wins from Your Boss

Jun 13, 2026 · 8:14
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How to Stop Hiding Your Wins from Your Boss

Jun 12, 2026 · 8:54
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How to Stop Imposter Syndrome From Making You Stay Silent in Meetings

Jun 12, 2026 · 8:50
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How to Stop Apologizing for Negotiating Salary

Jun 12, 2026 · 8:32
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How to Stop Downplaying Your Wins in a Team Setting

Jun 11, 2026 · 7:11
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How to Ask for a Reference When You Feel Like a Fraud

Jun 11, 2026 · 8:29
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How to Ask for a Raise When You Feel Like a Fraud

Jun 10, 2026 · 7:56
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How to Turn a Performance Review Rejection Into a Promotion

Jun 10, 2026 · 8:37
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How to Own Your Expertise Without Sounding Arrogant

Jun 9, 2026 · 8:58
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How to Stop Treating Self-Promotion as Bragging

Jun 9, 2026 · 6:14
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How to Stop Apologizing for Your Career Ambitions

Jun 8, 2026 · 8:11
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How To Stop Imposter Syndrome From Making You Overwork

Jun 8, 2026 · 9:19
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How to Turn Imposter Syndrome Into a Superpower at Work

Jun 7, 2026 · 9:16
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How to Stop Comparing Your Beginning to Someone Else's Middle

Jun 7, 2026 · 5:44
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How to Handle Envy of a Coworkers Success

Jun 6, 2026 · 7:00
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How to Let Go of Perfectionism at Work

Jun 6, 2026 · 7:19
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How to Stop Waiting for Permission to Speak Up at Work

Jun 5, 2026 · 8:50
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How to Stop Letting Your Own Standards Crush Your Confidence

Jun 5, 2026 · 9:32
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How to Stop Overpreparing for Every Work Conversation

Jun 4, 2026 · 8:45
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How to Stop Your Inner Critic From Writing Your Performance Review

Jun 4, 2026 · 9:58
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How to Stop Apologizing for Your Expertise

Jun 3, 2026 · 8:31
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How to Talk About Your Failures in a Job Interview

Jun 3, 2026 · 6:11
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How to Stop Apologizing for Asking Questions

Jun 2, 2026 · 8:37
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How to Stop Downplaying Your Wins at Work

Jun 2, 2026 · 10:34
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How to Stop Apologizing for Your Ambition at Work

Jun 1, 2026 · 9:49
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How to Negotiate Your Starting Salary Without Guilt or Anxiety

Jun 1, 2026 · 8:57
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How to Handle Imposter Syndrome When Youre the Expert in the Room

May 31, 2026 · 11:10
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How to Manage Imposter Syndrome When Starting a New Role

May 31, 2026 · 9:06
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How to Reclaim Your Voice When Youre the Only One Not Speaking

May 30, 2026 · 8:35
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How to Handle a Career Mistake Without Losing Your Reputation

May 30, 2026 · 8:05
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How to Ask for a Raise Without Feeling Like a Fraud

May 29, 2026 · 7:44
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How to Undersell Your Way Out of a Promotion

May 29, 2026 · 10:09
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How to Stop Selling Yourself Short in Meetings

May 28, 2026 · 7:33
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How to Ask for Feedback When You Fear Looking Stupid

May 28, 2026 · 10:23
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How to Rebrand Your Career Story Without Lying

May 27, 2026 · 13:44
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How to Stop Making Your Work Sound Easy

May 27, 2026 · 9:49
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How to Turn a Career Detour Into a Strategic Advantage

May 26, 2026 · 8:34
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How to Handle a Career Pivot When Imposter Syndrome Hits

May 26, 2026 · 7:38
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How to Be a Sponsor at Work Not Just a Mentor

May 25, 2026 · 6:19
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How to Stop Comparing Your Chapter 1 to Someone Else's Chapter 20

May 25, 2026 · 9:45
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How to Deal with Credit Theft at Work

May 24, 2026 · 8:54
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How to Unlearn Perfectionism and Take Smart Risks at Work

May 24, 2026 · 7:12
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How to Ask for a Raise When You Still Feel Like a Fraud

May 23, 2026 · 8:10
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How to Handle Feedback Without Crumbling or Deflecting

May 23, 2026 · 10:55
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How to Write a Brag File and Own Your Achievements

May 22, 2026 · 8:06
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The Visibility Gap How to Get Noticed at Work Without Bragging

May 22, 2026 · 6:04
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How to Negotiate Salary Without Feeling Awkward

May 21, 2026 · 6:43
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How to Stop Downplaying Your Wins at Work

May 21, 2026 · 8:42
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Imposter Syndrome and Your First Promotion

May 19, 2026 · 10:13
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