New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics

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New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics

Lucas and Luna explore the first 90 days of a new manager, from navigating the transition from peer to boss to building credibility without authority. Each episode examines a specific management challenge using real cases: how a tech lead at Spotify handled team pushback on code reviews, why a retail store manager at Patagonia reversed a 15% turnover by changing one-on-one meeting structure, and what data from Gallup's 2023 manager engagement survey reveals about the most common mistakes new leaders make. Lucas brings the research and frameworks — the Gartner manager readiness model, the 30-60-90 day templates from Harvard Business Review, and compensation data from Payscale — while Luna tests them against her own experience managing a marketing team and pushes for the messy human decisions behind the charts. They don't prescribe a single playbook; instead, they argue about when to impose structure and when to let norms emerge, how to handle a former peer who now resists direction, and what to do when your first hire quits in week six. Every conversation ends with a specific tension left unresolved: Is it better to over-communicate in the first month or let your team discover your style? Should you ever use the word 'accountability' in a one-on-one? This show is for the new manager who has read the articles but still doesn't know what to say tomorrow morning.

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Episodes

146 episodes

How New Managers Can Set Boundaries With Their Team

Aug 1, 2026 · 10:51
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How New Managers Can Lead Their First Team Meeting

Jul 30, 2026 · 5:52
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How New Managers Can Build Team Culture from Scratch

Jul 30, 2026 · 8:28
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How New Managers Can Give Feedback Without Crushing Morale

Jul 29, 2026 · 7:48
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How to Manage a Direct Report Who Is Older Than You

Jul 29, 2026 · 7:22
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How to Lead a Team More Experienced Than You

Jul 28, 2026 · 9:51
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How to Manage Former Peers After a Promotion

Jul 28, 2026 · 7:15
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How New Managers Can Help Their Team Bounce Back from Failure

Jul 28, 2026 · 7:02
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How New Managers Can Succeed With Remote Teams

Jul 27, 2026 · 8:11
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How New Managers Can Build Psychological Safety on Their Team

Jul 27, 2026 · 5:47
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How New Managers Can Handle Team Conflict

Jul 26, 2026 · 7:11
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How New Managers Can Handle a Micromanaging Boss

Jul 26, 2026 · 8:14
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When You're the Youngest Manager on the Team

Jul 25, 2026 · 9:23
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How New Managers Can Delegate Without Dumping

Jul 24, 2026 · 7:01
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How New Managers Can Handle Decision Fatigue

Jul 23, 2026 · 6:40
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How New Managers Can Navigate Their First Performance Reviews

Jul 23, 2026 · 8:40
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How New Managers Can Handle Difficult Conversations with Direct Reports

Jul 23, 2026 · 9:10
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How New Managers Can Run Their First One-on-One

Jul 22, 2026 · 9:37
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How New Managers Can Influence Without Authority

Jul 22, 2026 · 6:32
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How New Managers Can Manage Their Energy Not Just Their Time

Jul 21, 2026 · 9:11
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How New Managers Can Handle Impostor Syndrome

Jul 21, 2026 · 7:43
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How New Managers Can Navigate Office Politics Without Playing Games

Jul 20, 2026 · 10:54
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How New Managers Can Protect Their Team From Scope Creep

Jul 19, 2026 · 6:41
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How New Managers Can Manage Up Without Selling Out

Jul 19, 2026 · 7:52
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How New Managers Can Build a Feedback Culture

Jul 18, 2026 · 7:37
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How New Managers Can Set Team Norms Early

Jul 18, 2026 · 7:31
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How New Managers Can Host Effective Skip-Level Meetings

Jul 17, 2026 · 8:18
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How New Managers Can Transition from Peer to Manager

Jul 17, 2026 · 10:47
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How New Managers Can Rebuild Trust After a Mistake

Jul 16, 2026 · 8:24
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How New Managers Can Develop Their Own Leadership Voice

Jul 16, 2026 · 9:14
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How New Managers Can Establish Their Authority Without Being Bossy

Jul 15, 2026 · 8:15
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How New Managers Can Give Feedback That Sticks

Jul 15, 2026 · 10:20
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How New Managers Can Coach Underperformers Without Rescuing Them

Jul 14, 2026 · 9:18
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How New Managers Can Lead a Team Through Change

Jul 14, 2026 · 9:29
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How New Managers Can Delegate Without Losing Control

Jul 13, 2026 · 11:04
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How New Managers Can Spotlight Their Team Members

Jul 13, 2026 · 6:56
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How New Managers Can Say No Without Burning Bridges

Jul 12, 2026 · 8:21
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How New Managers Can Handle Decision Fatigue

Jul 12, 2026 · 9:58
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How New Managers Can Run Effective Status Meetings

Jul 11, 2026 · 7:23
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How New Managers Can Receive Feedback Without Getting Defensive

Jul 11, 2026 · 10:38
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How New Managers Can Run Their First Difficult Performance Conversation

Jul 10, 2026 · 11:19
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How New Managers Can Run Their First Team Offsite

Jul 10, 2026 · 8:39
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How New Managers Can Run One-on-Ones That Actually Work

Jul 9, 2026 · 6:47
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How New Managers Can Navigate Cross-Functional Conflict

Jul 9, 2026 · 8:08
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How New Managers Can Lead a Team Through a Reorganisation

Jul 8, 2026 · 8:21
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How New Managers Can Handle Imposter Syndrome

Jul 8, 2026 · 11:14
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How New Managers Can Build a Personal Board of Directors

Jul 8, 2026 · 8:45
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How New Managers Can Set Boundaries with Their Old Team

Jul 7, 2026 · 10:26
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How New Managers Can Navigate Office Politics Without Playing Games

Jul 7, 2026 · 9:08
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How New Managers Can Handle a Team Member Who Resists Change

Jul 6, 2026 · 7:14
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How New Managers Can Manage Their Energy Not Just Their Time

Jul 6, 2026 · 8:24
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How New Managers Can Ask for Help Without Looking Weak

Jul 5, 2026 · 6:56
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How New Managers Can Take Ownership Without Overstepping

Jul 5, 2026 · 10:07
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How New Managers Can Transition From Peer to Boss

Jul 4, 2026 · 8:56
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How New Managers Can Build Trust With a Sceptical Team

Jul 4, 2026 · 12:26
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How New Managers Can Give Constructive Criticism Without Crushing Morale

Jul 3, 2026 · 8:40
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How New Managers Can Coach a High Performer Who Wants Your Job

Jul 3, 2026 · 9:30
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How New Managers Can Delegate Without Losing Control

Jul 2, 2026 · 8:48
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New Manager Conversations with Fexingo First 90 Days Managing Former Peers and Leadership Basics

Jul 2, 2026 · 10:13
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How New Managers Can Coach a Struggling Team Member

Jul 1, 2026 · 7:52
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How New Managers Can Say No to Their Teams

Jul 1, 2026 · 7:20
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How New Managers Can Run a Team Retrospective That Builds Trust

Jul 1, 2026 · 9:34
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How New Managers Can Give Clear Instructions Without Micromanaging

Jun 30, 2026 · 8:22
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How New Managers Can Rebound From a Leadership Mistake

Jun 30, 2026 · 8:29
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How New Managers Can Navigate Their First Performance Review Cycle

Jun 29, 2026 · 8:14
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How New Managers Can Protect Their Team from Organisational Chaos

Jun 29, 2026 · 10:56
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How New Managers Can Fire Someone With Respect

Jun 28, 2026 · 9:06
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How New Managers Can Handle a Team Member in Career Transition

Jun 28, 2026 · 9:44
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How New Managers Can Set Boundaries With Their Team

Jun 27, 2026 · 11:57
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How New Managers Can Handle a Team Member Who Knows More Than Them

Jun 27, 2026 · 12:18
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How New Managers Can Handle Feedback From Their Own Team

Jun 26, 2026 · 11:55
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How New Managers Can Run a One-on-One That Actually Matters

Jun 26, 2026 · 7:45
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How New Managers Can Navigate Office Politics Without Playing Games

Jun 25, 2026 · 8:54
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How New Managers Can Run Their First Skip-Level Meeting

Jun 25, 2026 · 6:42
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How New Managers Can Use Weekly Syncs to Save Time

Jun 24, 2026 · 9:33
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How New Managers Can Onboard Remotely in the Hybrid Era

Jun 24, 2026 · 9:38
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How New Managers Can Build a Feedback Culture on Day One

Jun 23, 2026 · 9:13
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How New Managers Can Build Trust With Their Team Quickly

Jun 23, 2026 · 7:38
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How New Managers Can Delegate Without Dumping

Jun 22, 2026 · 10:42
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How New Managers Can Handle Imposter Syndrome

Jun 22, 2026 · 8:17
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How New Managers Can Run a Post-Mortem That Actually Prevents Rework

Jun 21, 2026 · 6:54
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How New Managers Can Manage Up Without Oversharing

Jun 21, 2026 · 7:58
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How New Managers Can Give Feedback That Actually Lands

Jun 20, 2026 · 8:29
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How New Managers Can Build a Personal Operating System

Jun 20, 2026 · 7:39
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How New Managers Can Build Influence Without Authority

Jun 19, 2026 · 6:43
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How New Managers Can Build a Personal Operating System

Jun 19, 2026 · 7:07
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How New Managers Can Create a Decision-Making Framework

Jun 18, 2026 · 9:29
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How New Managers Can Coach Underperformers Without Micromanaging

Jun 18, 2026 · 8:53
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How New Managers Can Lead Team Meetings That Actually Work

Jun 17, 2026 · 10:29
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How New Managers Can Set Boundaries With Former Peers

Jun 17, 2026 · 9:32
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How New Managers Can Fire Someone in Their First Year

Jun 16, 2026 · 9:43
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How New Managers Can Ask Their Boss for Resources

Jun 16, 2026 · 11:51
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How New Managers Can Break the Cycle of Heroic Problem-Solving

Jun 15, 2026 · 9:45
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How New Managers Can Push Back Without Burning Bridges

Jun 15, 2026 · 8:05
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How New Managers Can Recover From a Mistake

Jun 14, 2026 · 9:27
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How New Managers Can Use Their First 30 Days to Build Credibility

Jun 14, 2026 · 6:08
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How New Managers Can Handle Conflict Between Direct Reports

Jun 13, 2026 · 8:48
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How New Managers Can Navigate Their First Performance Review Cycle

Jun 13, 2026 · 9:40
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How New Managers Can Build Team Norms in Their First 90 Days

Jun 12, 2026 · 9:13
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How New Managers Can Delegate Their First Big Project

Jun 12, 2026 · 7:54
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How to Run Your First Team Retrospective as a New Manager

Jun 12, 2026 · 7:49
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How New Managers Can Make Smarter Hiring Decisions in Their First Year

Jun 11, 2026 · 8:17
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How New Managers Can Transition From Peer to Boss Without Losing Relationships

Jun 11, 2026 · 12:45
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How New Managers Can Praise Their Team Effectively

Jun 10, 2026 · 7:31
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How New Managers Can Use One-on-Ones as Coaching Tools

Jun 10, 2026 · 11:00
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How New Managers Can Handle Impostor Syndrome in the First 90 Days

Jun 9, 2026 · 6:52
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How New Managers Can Tell Their Team's Story Upwards

Jun 9, 2026 · 7:55
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How New Managers Can Build a Feedback Culture From Day One

Jun 8, 2026 · 7:33
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How New Managers Can Ask for Help Without Looking Weak

Jun 8, 2026 · 9:23
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How New Managers Can Set Expectations With Their First Direct Report

Jun 7, 2026 · 9:46
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How New Managers Can Coach Not Solve

Jun 7, 2026 · 7:53
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How New Managers Can Navigate Office Politics Without Playing Games

Jun 6, 2026 · 10:16
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How New Managers Can Use Their First 90 Days to Build Trust

Jun 6, 2026 · 10:18
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How to Run Your First Team Brainstorm as a New Manager

Jun 5, 2026 · 14:31
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How New Managers Can Give Constructive Feedback to Senior Stakeholders

Jun 5, 2026 · 9:33
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How New Managers Can Address Underperformance Without Writing Them Off

Jun 4, 2026 · 10:06
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How New Managers Can Run Their First Skip-Level Meeting

Jun 4, 2026 · 9:02
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How New Managers Can Protect Their Team From Scope Creep

Jun 3, 2026 · 9:52
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How New Managers Can Run Their First One-on-One

Jun 3, 2026 · 9:57
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How New Managers Can Set Boundaries With High Performers

Jun 2, 2026 · 6:46
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New Managers How to Delegate Without Feeling Guilty

Jun 2, 2026 · 6:26
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How New Managers Can Manage a Team During Company Reorganization

Jun 1, 2026 · 10:28
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How to Give Your Team Negative Feedback Without Crushing Morale

Jun 1, 2026 · 7:11
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How New Managers Can Manage a Former Peer Now a Direct Report

May 31, 2026 · 7:31
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How New Managers Can Get Early Wins Without Overpromising

May 31, 2026 · 10:16
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How New Managers Can Set Their Team Up for Prioritization

May 30, 2026 · 6:46
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How New Managers Can Handle Team Conflict Between Direct Reports

May 30, 2026 · 11:28
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How New Managers Can Address Impostor Syndrome With Their Teams

May 29, 2026 · 6:25
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How New Managers Can Help Burned-Out Team Members

May 29, 2026 · 11:09
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How New Managers Can Handle Being Wrong in Front of Their Team

May 28, 2026 · 8:52
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How New Managers Can Run Their First Team Retrospective

May 28, 2026 · 9:47
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How New Managers Can Stop Solving Everything Themselves

May 27, 2026 · 9:01
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How New Managers Can Make Better Decisions Under Pressure

May 27, 2026 · 9:45
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How New Managers Can Navigate Office Politics Without Playing Games

May 26, 2026 · 6:53
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How New Managers Can Coach Rather Than Solve

May 26, 2026 · 10:41
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How New Managers Can Build Trust With a Hybrid Team

May 25, 2026 · 8:40
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How New Managers Can Give Constructive Feedback to Underperformers

May 25, 2026 · 8:17
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How New Managers Can Handle a Micromanaging Boss

May 24, 2026 · 9:55
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New Managers How to Read Your Team Dynamics Early

May 24, 2026 · 7:43
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New Managers and the Art of Saying No

May 23, 2026 · 9:06
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How New Managers Can Run Better One-on-Ones

May 23, 2026 · 7:47
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How New Managers Can Set Boundaries Without Burning Bridges

May 22, 2026 · 8:49
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The Delegation Trap New Managers Fall Into

May 22, 2026 · 11:46
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Giving Feedback to a Direct Report Who Resists It

May 21, 2026 · 7:07
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Managing Former Peers Without Losing the Friendship

May 21, 2026 · 9:23
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First 90 Days How New Managers Succeed or Fail

May 19, 2026 · 13:06
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